Episode 11

When You Feel Invisible

Have you ever felt completely unseen even when you were surrounded by people? Not lonely in the traditional sense but invisible in a deeper way, like your presence just was not registering, like your words were passing right through people without landing.

In this episode Marilyn digs into what feeling invisible actually is, why it is different from loneliness, and why needing to feel like we matter is not weakness or neediness. It is one of the most fundamental human needs we have.

This is a rich and honest conversation about why we end up feeling this way, how we sometimes create our own invisibility without realizing it, and most importantly what we can actually do to start feeling seen again. Not by waiting for others to notice us but by taking a few small intentional steps toward restoring our own sense of mattering.

In this episode:

  • Why feeling invisible is different from loneliness and why that distinction matters
  • Why we are wired from birth to need to feel like we matter
  • The honest reasons we end up feeling unseen including surface listening, technology, depression and anxiety, and childhood experiences
  • How we sometimes make ourselves invisible without realizing it
  • Two real life examples of feeling invisible in relationships and at work
  • How to use the bubble method when the belief that we do not matter feels overwhelming
  • Six practical ways to start restoring our sense of mattering

This week's takeaway:

We matter more than we think. The evidence is in the small moments we have been overlooking. This week try one thing that reminds you of your own value without waiting for someone else to confirm it first.

If you are struggling:

You are not alone and you do not have to carry this by yourself. If you are in crisis or feeling unsafe please reach out for help right away.

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline

Call or text 988 anytime day or night. Free confidential support is available 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

Connect with Marilyn:

www.MarilynBarker.com

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Life, Mindset & Everything In Between

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Marilyn Barker

Marilyn Barker is an author, speaker, business consultant, motivational coach, and the creator of Put It in a Bubble™. Through her books, podcast, workshops, and coaching, she helps people create space, shift their perspective, process difficult moments, and take intentional steps forward.
Put It in a Bubble™ is built around a simple idea: you do not have to carry everything at once. Marilyn encourages listeners to pause, decide what deserves their energy, take action where needed, and release what they no longer need to hold onto.
Her approach is practical, encouraging, and grounded in real life. The goal is not to ignore hard things or force positivity, but to handle challenges with more awareness, stronger self-talk, greater resilience, and a clearer sense of what comes next.
Marilyn is the founder of Barker Business Services LLC, which serves as the umbrella for her consulting, speaking, educational resources, books, and the Put It in a Bubble™ brand.

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