Episode 15

Boundaries and Balance During the Holidays

The holidays can be beautiful—and overwhelming. In this episode, we talk about setting kind, clear boundaries that protect your time, energy, budget, and peace. You’ll get simple scripts you can use word-for-word, a 3-step boundary framework, micro-habits that reduce stress, and a short guided exercise to define your non-negotiables.

What You’ll Learn

  • A simple 3-step framework: Notice → Name → Negotiate
  • Word-for-word scripts for time, money, food/body talk, travel, hosting, hot topics, and last-minute requests
  • Micro-boundaries that prevent overwhelm (calendar buffers, two-yes rule, “leave while happy”)
  • A quick Guilt Detox reframe to stop second-guessing
  • A 5-minute Holiday Non-Negotiables exercise you can repeat all season

Links & Free Resource

  • Free One-Pager: Holiday Boundary Script Sheet — copy/paste scripts, plus the Non-Negotiables template.
  • Share this episode with a friend who needs permission to choose peace over perfection.

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Marilyn Barker

Certified Business and Motivational Coach. Wife and Mom. Living with Depression and anxiety and helping others know they are not alone. Marilyn started her own business in 2006 after ending up in the hospital after a mental break. She prides herself on learning and overcoming hardships she has faced in her life. She is helping others see that there can be a life worth living even when you have struggles with mental health.